In many ways, the male perspective was a bit predictable but if you enter the mindset of a lady,
this subject presents wide-ranging possibilities—some that you might associate with immediately and some that might seem a bit outlandish.
She Will Understand, Analyze & Decipher How You Interpret Her & Sexuality It is a very rare possibility that a couple would embark upon lingerie spotting, for the first time, without having discussed the prospects of being surrounded by hundreds of extremely arousing, innerwear possibilities. I generally tend to be a bit detailed in my conversations and thus, I believe that this would be the norm for most couples, i.e. even if they don’t get creatively substantiated like me, this kind of retail outing is bound to be preceded by some degree of conjecture, hesitation, discussions and eventually, mutual agreement. In my opinion, the way a couple discusses this topic and approaches it makes a significant impression on the lady.
For instance, if you are generous in describing how certain brassiere styles would enhance her curves and what kind of shade would suit her skin-color the best, you present yourself as someone genuinely invoked by lingerie and more importantly, your fantasies or perception of how she would carry it. This is sure to underline one aspect in her mind, i.e. you are physically attracted to her for sure.
Yes, intellectual compatibility is more important to many women but even they would confess that having a man who isn't turned on by their physicality is a deterrent to the relationship. Further, a more generous discussion about the subject would help her understand your interpretation of sexuality to a certain extent. If you are simply obsessed with the crotch-less variety, you are more likely to be less evoked by sensuality, with a preference for a more direct kind of erotica.
Your Stock Rises As An Explorative, Confident & Expressive Man
It might be shocking for some of you too but shopping together for a girl’s innerwear still isn't as common as many of my friends and I had assumed. Many men still find it too girly or are have been marred by an unusual sense of shyness that overcomes them once they are within a lingerie section. If along with being expressive, you seem genuinely interested in picking the pieces for her, whispering to her how they would look marvelous on her and why some pieces would be more arousing to slide-off her body, you are essentially making an impression on her, as a sexually-explorative, expressive and confident man—traits that are bound to impress most women, no matter how progressive or iconoclastic gender-based opinions have become.
The Dicey Aspect To It: Is This Leading Towards Marriage?
It might sound a bit too traditional but some women are inclined towards continuously assessing the seriousness of their relationship w.r.t. marriage. Something that is purely erotic and exciting for you might carry a matrimonial undercurrent for her. Like I said in the first part of this article, an outing like this should be planned only when the relationship has matured beyond a certain point of intellectual compatibility and physicality. Thus, this kind of exclusive shopping experience is going to surface after you guys have reached a certain destination in your relationship.
Shopping together for her intimates can push her towards thinking if the relationship is taking a more serious, matrimonial note. If you happen to enter one of those bigger lingerie parlors that have dedicated bridal wear selections, there is a definite chance that even if your girl hadn’t thought about it (marriage), she might be tempted to.
He Seems A Bit Too Involved—Is He Gay?!
The increasing number of our friends from the bi, transgender and gay communityhas ensured that women are increasingly becoming a bit suspicious of any behavior in their men that suggests a feminine aura. While there is nothing wrong in taking the initiative and soaking in the wisdom she provides you about this strictly female domain, an overtly aggressive approach could seed doubts in her mind regarding your sexual preferences or the hidden cross-dresser in you waiting to break free!!
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