Females are the curious sex indeed; or so it may seem to the opposite sex.
More than often, you may find that your girlfriend has been unfaithful to you. Of course you would cringe, fume, sulk in utter agony and pain and then ultimately go with guns blazing to your girlfriend, seeking the reason as to what you did to deserve this heinous act of monstrosity. But hold on just a second. Is that the best way to deal with the situation? You would probably end up breaking something more than just the relationship and condemn yourself to even more pain and suffering. Given that you even don’t want to prolong the relationship, there still is a better option. Read on.
1. The Big Question
The first thing you need to do is ask yourself the big question: “Can you give her a second chance?” Apparently, your emotions get the better of you in scenarios like these but you still need to think from a rational point of view. There can easily be a chance for a misunderstanding or error of judgement. The best bet is to delve deeper, get a confession and then make your decision.
2. Prepare Yourself
Let your anger vent before you try to reach a balanced state of mind. You will need to weigh and circumspect all the aspects of the confrontation. This may be the time for some introspection on your part too. Analyze the weak points of your relationship and try to think about the possible reasons which may have led your girlfriend to cheat on you.
3. The Probe
Involving yourself more with your girlfriend, and asking her questions about her feelings and thoughts may give you an insight into a her current mindset. Treat her extraordinarily well and be concerned. The main aim here is to make her feel guilty. You can probably tell her that you love her and want to take the relationship to the next level. You can also try hinting that you know about her infidelity. Most likely she is bound to freak out and spill the beans.
4. Final Confrontation
If everything fails and she still would not give you a confession, then it is best to get everything out in the open. Take some pains to listen to her side of the story. If you still feel that you cannot trust her again, it is best to give her the cold walk-out.
5. Lay down the Rules
In case you choose to look past her mistakes and give a new life to the relationship, you must make it clear that there would not be a second chance in any case.
Every relationship is different, needs some work and comes with an expiry date. There cannot be a universal set of rules governing all. A cheating girlfriend may seem like the worst thing that could possibly happen to you, but things can get much worse if you don’t handle it right. In the end, it all depends on how far you can go to save your relationship. Above all do remember the simple fact that life goes on.
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